# Come as You Are  Author:: Emily Nagoski Ph.D. ## Highlights > A woman can be perfectly normal and healthy and experience “arousal nonconcordance,” where the behavior of her genitals (being wet or dry) may not match her mental experience (feeling turned on or not). ([Location 77](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08BZWXK9J&location=77)) --- Title: Come as You Are Author: Emily Nagoski Ph.D. Tags: readwise, books date: 2024-01-30 --- # Come as You Are  Author:: Emily Nagoski Ph.D. ## AI-Generated Summary None ## Highlights > A woman can be perfectly normal and healthy and experience “arousal nonconcordance,” where the behavior of her genitals (being wet or dry) may not match her mental experience (feeling turned on or not). ([Location 77](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08BZWXK9J&location=77))