# 140 - The Jealousy Survival Guide ![rw-book-cover](https://wsrv.nl/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmegaphone.imgix.net%2Fpodcasts%2F6c909720-2f0e-11e9-a20c-33258e821e00%2Fimage%2FPodcast_Image_2023__1_.jpg%3Fixlib%3Drails-4.3.1%26max-w%3D3000%26max-h%3D3000%26fit%3Dcrop%26auto%3Dformat%2Ccompress&w=100&h=100) URL:: https://share.snipd.com/episode/5ef915df-a1f3-4918-9b0d-5b072a7628ef Author:: Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships ![rw-book-cover](https://wsrv.nl/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmegaphone.imgix.net%2Fpodcasts%2F6c909720-2f0e-11e9-a20c-33258e821e00%2Fimage%2FPodcast_Image_2023__1_.jpg%3Fixlib%3Drails-4.3.1%26max-w%3D3000%26max-h%3D3000%26fit%3Dcrop%26auto%3Dformat%2Ccompress&w=100&h=100) ## AI-Generated Summary None ## Highlights > **Jealousy and Fear** > - Jealousy often stems from three core fears. > - These include fears of receiving less time/affection, losing the partner, or never experiencing specific things with them again. > Transcript: > Dedeker Winston > As you explain in the book that often our fears that fuel our jealousy are connected to either the sense of, you know, less of being afraid that I'm getting going to get less of my partner's Time or less of my partner's affection to the fear of loss, you know, fear that I'm going to lose this partner entirely, or the fear of never the fear that like, I'm never going to be with This person again, or maybe they will never take me on a date like the date they just went on with the with my metamor, you know, things like that. ([Time 0:12:25](https://share.snipd.com/snip/406fb453-e729-4775-89d2-c0f43714821c))