# 180 - The Mono/Poly Paradox ![rw-book-cover](https://wsrv.nl/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmegaphone.imgix.net%2Fpodcasts%2F6c909720-2f0e-11e9-a20c-33258e821e00%2Fimage%2FPodcast_Image_2023__1_.jpg%3Fixlib%3Drails-4.3.1%26max-w%3D3000%26max-h%3D3000%26fit%3Dcrop%26auto%3Dformat%2Ccompress&w=100&h=100) URL:: https://share.snipd.com/episode/bdf32b1f-8839-4edc-99d9-0a4d40bf45c7 Author:: Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships ## AI-Generated Summary None ## Highlights > The thing about being enough > Summary: > Finding balance in a relationship involves meeting each other's needs without feeling like you have to be everything for the other person. > The concept of being enough is about realizing that you don't have to fulfill every need to be considered 'enough'. > Transcript: > Speaker 1 > It's about finding that balance between the two where you're both realizing you're both getting your needs met with each other but you're not that was the big one for me. People a lot of times they talk about that feeling of being enough. You know, like I don't, why am I not enough for him or why am I not enough for them? And the thing about being enough is that you don't have to be everything to be enough. ([Time 0:22:25](https://share.snipd.com/snip/10d6e644-83e2-432e-8cda-13ee1681699d)) ## New highlights added April 1, 2024 at 10:04 PM > Episode AI notes > 1. Finding balance in a relationship means meeting each other's needs without feeling like one has to be everything for the other person. > 2. The concept of being 'enough' in a relationship involves realizing that one doesn't have to fulfill every need to be considered sufficient. ([Time 0:00:00](https://share.snipd.com/episode-takeaways/20d6b232-d92c-484a-a7a8-e587f230b2a9))